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Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

Last Updated: 16.06.2025 04:06

Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

Point being - Marriage seems to be good to others - it's not - it has no passion in it - and two people come to live together as room mates and share their expense - to keep their secret from others the lips get sealed - of having separate beds and separate accounts

For exciting and intensely satisfying sex that is deprived or denied or not understood of each other's needs - quick judgments " My husband watches porn " If it's not porn - it's his drinking - he spends more time with his friends- he doesn't share the work around the house - he doesn't talk - doesn't respect my family - not working enough - Headaches - Fibromyalgia- TMJ - size - ED and the list grows from a page to a size of 2 PDR's.

Millions of excuses - Reasons - constant fighting - arguments- And always something wrong with the other- no self reflection -

Could humans be selectively bred, like dogs, to create 2 subspecies that can no longer have offspring? Do I not understand selective breeding properly? Im not worried about the moral implications, just the science please.

so begins the first step heading towards separation and divorce which becomes the battle ground- my TV - my sofa - my bed - my - my - my ……..

Grass looks green elsewhere - begins the cheating - And to get what - ? SEX.

Nothing perfect - It's not acceptable if it's not perfect - but only the other one !

Is a man over 50 not married no kids a red flag?

My own imperfections is not the reason - you see …. !